Early Bird pricing ends on 12 Jul!
Join over 100 moms with distracted / highly emotional kids using the
Start Focus Finish system!
Early Bird pricing ends on 12 Jul!
Help your distracted child finish homework INDEPENDENTLY!
without tears or tantrums, in 1 afternoon -
no nagging, yelling or bribing from you required!
Doors close on 7 July, Thursday, 2359!
Join over 100 moms with distracted / highly emotional kids using the
Start Focus Finish system!
Help your distracted child finish homework INDEPENDENTLY!
without tears or tantrums, in 1 afternoon -
no nagging, yelling or bribing from you required!
Join us for 90 minutes and I'll help you...
Work WITH your child's unique brain, not against it.
Invite cooperation and sidestep the opposition.
Feel secure and confident in a system that works
Be assured that what we are doing is training and giving our kids the skills FOR LIFE
to manage their time and take ownership of their work.
If you...
have felt loss at what to do other than nagging and yelling,
are running out of ideas to get your child take ownership of his/her own work,
are angry with yourself because you care more than your child about that half-assed, half-done assignment,
it’s time to implement the SFF (Start.Focus.Finish) system.
You don’t understand why is starting,
staying focused and
finishing homework so hard for your child and every day is a constant battle against wills!
You are seething with anger coming home after a hard day at work, then see your child relaxing on the sofa, surfing youtube brainrot (and what the heck is skibbidi toilet?!) and he/she has homework not done, spelling not learnt, piano not practiced, still stewing in his sweaty PE attire, not bathed… and you wonder how on earth did your child waste all this time after school.
What makes you riled you up is the heck-care attitude and the fact that you care more about his/her work than your child does.
Every evening, it is a relentless race against time trying to get your child to finish homework and learn his/he spelling and tingxie (Mother Tongue spelling) and this frenzied state of affairs is making you feel frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed!!
The truth is… you are worried more than angry
because you KNOW time is precious and you fear your child is going to fall behind if he/she doesn’t use the time wisely to do homework and/or additional revision.
You also have an uneasy feeling in the pit of your stomach that you are fast running out of ideas to get your child to take ownership of the work.
If your child is like that now at primary school, how are you going to cajole, nag or punish your child into doing the work? And you secretly fear… what if my child NEVER wants to do work on his/her own? What if he/she will ALWAYS need me to sit beside him and push and push to write every single word?
If we haven't met, hi, I'm Abigail!
4 years ago, I was exactly in your position. My son would be an angel at school and then come home and unleash all his fury on me, usually triggered by my nagging to get him to do homework.
He would be so angry at doing Chinese copywork (xi2 zi4) and learning Chinese spelling that he would tear the paper, scream and cry. It was so difficult every afternoon because I would have to first endure his tantrums, scold him for provoking his sisters because he was angry, then still make him sit and finish his homework. If I left his side, he would not do his work.
We suspected he had ADHD but he was not diagnosed then so it was all up to me to figure out a way to help him calm down, get used to a structure and motivate him to finish the work. And then train him to do all those independently. I had to learn on the job and fortunately, my background in psychology and teacher training came in handy.
Things have changed so much now for us and he can take out his work and finish it independently. Life at home is so much calmer and easy when you don't need to keep pushing and reminding little people to do their work every.single.afternoon!
With SFF System, you can rest assured that you are
working towards your child learning the skills to
take ownership and manage his/her time and work
WITHOUT you being the driver or prompter.
Introducing
Start.Focus.Finish System
This workshop helps you implement the system to get your child to start, focus and finish homework without you nagging and yelling.
Learn and implement the SFF system in 1 afternoon!
Understand your distracted child’s unique mind and hidden superpower
Go from meltdown to motivated
Do this 1 thing that will calm the big emotional meltdowns
Come up with a simple, repeatable process to coach your child to finish homework independently
Access the 90 min workshop immediately and get everything you need to help your distracted child become more motivated and independent!
Topics:
Here's what we 'll cover inside the workshop:
✔️ My go-to process for diagnosing child’s meltdowns and misbehaviours (so you can tackle the root of the problem, instead of skirting around and getting worked up over the symptoms)
✔️ My favorite tools for helping the child become more independent and self-manage
✔️ How to get buy-in and cooperation from your child (and solve 80% of the conflict with your child!)
BONUS CONTENT!
🎁 A step-by-step implementation guide for you to work through the steps and apply straightaway
🎁 Study tips and hacks that WORK for the distracted child - managing spelling and tingxie (and tests) independently
🎁 Tips for managing Home-Based Learning independently
🎁 Managing screentime boundaries for your child
FASt-ACTION BoNUS!
Enrol by 2 Jul, Saturday 2359 and pay in full!
Want my eyes on your situation?
You'll get a FAMILY MAPPING INTENSIVE within the first week of the programme to set you up for success.
It's the ultimate VIP treatment where we talk about your goals, identify your gaps and give you a clear action plan for the next 3 months!
Additional resources will be created specially for you to help you get the change you are looking for!
Here's what others said...
"The best $$ I ever spent in my whole life. I am in CA so I woke up early to listen live. It was also the best 60 minutes of my life!"
- Mummy P, Full-time working mom of 1
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Is this right for a busy mom? I really have no time.
YES! If you find yourself overwhelmed and have no time, all the more you need to make the moments count! I have a bonus created just for you - Time Management for Busy Moms. The lessons are dripped so even if you need to take a pause, you can always come back to where you had left off. You'll also get lifetime access to the Core Modules so you do not need to fear falling behind.
Why is this so cheap?
I see so many parents having a similar problem and they really struggle with managing their distracted child. I want you to experience this positive, vital change in atmosphere in your family so that this becomes your stepping to the next thing - which is teaching and coaching your child. I believe you can't really teach your child if you're stuck in constant fights, having a disconnected relationship and struggles in communication.
I hope you'll experience a positive change after joining this LITE tier and maybe you'll consider joining my premium membership where we go deeper into teaching and coaching the distracted child. Find details of my other membership here
What age is this suitable for?
This is suitable for kids from the age of 2 to 10. I have different examples for different age groups to you can pick the examples more pertinent to the challenges your child faces.
My child is not ADHD. Will this work?
Yes! These parenting coaching works for neurotypical children too. We are looking at techniques to observe our children, intentionally spending time with them, and creating structures in the home to support the child. Some of our children need more purposeful strategies tailored to them so by following our child, we will be able to meet their needs individually.
My child is ADHD. Will this help me?